Some openly feminist advice to men on how to deal with women

Yesterday some free advise has been given by some feminist to men, on how to deal with women.

Following  is the article I got from

IBNLive.com | 26-Nov-2013 12:25 PM

. We can see this feminist's are not really happy with equality, they want to destroy total culture and replace it with a messy and confused culture. Like they will ware any thing they want, and man should not look at her. They do any stupidity on road and her husband should not stop her. They can roam and lay down with anyone, not restricted to  any particular number, as per feminist they can have as many men as they wish, and husband or father or brother or boyfriend cant ask a single question.

Last but not least "Women can break their relationship with you and go with anyone they wish at any moment, and man don't have right to stop her and at least ask her." , an there is also a free suggestion here, they say that a man should say sorry even if he hasn't done any thing, and women may think of forgiving him.

You know what, I never say sorry until unless I have did anything wrong. I as a husband , Father,Brother  I have responsibility to protect her before marriage, after marriage, In school, In college. I have right tell her what not to do and what to do, when she is moving in wrong direction. Most no of suicides in women are majorly due to their wrong decisions and realization after their wrong actions. In case they feel shame for it they go for suicide. There are very few such cases where men are the reason for women suicide. But these feminist's link every death women to man and keep forcing government to make anti man laws.First they stop men from guiding their women. Then when something wrong happens and women realizes that she did wrong and she go for suicide, then again these same feminist's blame man for that and make him guilty for nothing.

Every man and women who think this feminism is  anti male, and is trying to kill everything masculine. raise your voice, this feminist world, be part in saving our Indian culture, Our heritage, we cant loose our Hindu dharma and culture for some anti social elements and culture less minds , who are trying to spoil our culture.

IBNLive.com | 26-Nov-2013 12:25 PM

       Over the past few days, several versions of what happened at Tehelka's intellectual ThinkFest in Goa have come out in public. The initial letters written by the magazine's founding editor Tarun Tejpal to his alleged victim of sexual assault were contrite in their tone and text. But as the story played out in the media over a week, Tejpal was seen changing his defense and now claims that it was nothing more than 'drunken banter' between two consensual adults.
Tejpal has said, "I'm shocked to learn that a false complaint was sought to be projected as an incident of alleged harassment. The encounter was only light hearted banter which led to a moment of privacy between two individuals. Our meeting lasted a few seconds and no intimate moment was shared between us."
Tejpal has said that "the woman continued to party" even after the incident, implying that she could not have been traumatized enough.
Here are some openly feminist pointers to men who deal with women daily at home, workplaces and socially:
1. A woman can decide to take time to internalize and process an incident. The outward expression isn't proof of internal trauma
2. A woman can choose to file a complaint at any time she deems fit - even a month after the incident if she so chooses, it doesn't mean she is looking to make hay
3. Even if it started as a consensual affair, a woman can say 'no' at any time. 'No' means 'no'. The sooner men understand that the better it is for all parties concerned
4. A woman can have multiple sexual partners. What she chooses to do in her own time isn't your concern. It doesn't reflect on her abilities as a professional. You cannot take the moral high ground as defence against a charge of sexual assault
5. A woman's clothes aren't testimony to her character
6. Even in a feminist world, you have to be courteous to women. The tired cliche that 'if you think you are equal to us, you bloody well fight for that last seat on the tube' doesn't work for me. Women value generosity in a man
7. Often you are physically, mentally and emotionally the only crutch a woman has - as her brother, husband, lover, friend, father and colleague - to bear her cross. Don't exploit that as leverage for bargaining for her freedom and choices she makes
8. You wouldn't like to be told how to live your life. Don't tell her how to live hers
9. Her freedom - to wear what she wants, to go where she wants, to choose her friends - isn't yours to bestow. Don't play her God in your micro-cosmos



10. Nothing works better than a well worded apology when you are wrong. You don't know what a woman is willing to forgive if you only said sorry.

Sucide is a privilage for men --- Ishitha says this.

 This is what today's so called abala naari says about men.

Where we are heading with this society, men who have to be privileged to be respected for their sacrifices  through out their life, This feminist says that men are privileged to be dead. Men are the one because of whom this country is still safe, out brother's who are fighting with our enemy to protect this country risking their life's.

         She says that women has not given a privilege to die? that's laughable at the best. This women definitely got out of her mind. Let  her tell the same thing when her son will commit suicide because of her  daughter in-law's torment. then I will accept that......

These women are speaking with ego that, they got  power with which they can do anything  because of 498a, they are happy that they can misuse it and nobody is there to stop or punish them. But to be frank there is one who will punish them, may be not in this world, but there is some one who is watching. believe it or not, but the sin of killing those innocent men is upon these women who are the reason for suicide of men.

Oh and she says women don't abuse, I my self experienced the severe abuse from my wife and I cant say even one thing in return, Because I am tied up with foolish laws. Why should we protect these women at all? If they feel they are so empowered then every man should remember this and leave them alone. Don't help any women like these, even if they meet accidents, even if they meet with incidents like rape, don't help them. Let them save themselves.

We as a men should help women then get all kind of laws enforced against us. Why?

I prefer to protect women who are really useful for society, Who really strive to make their children a good citizens, But not these kind of feminist.

Increasing no of suicides of married men compared to married women

2007:

57593 married men committed suicide
30064 married women.

2008:

57639 married men committed suicide
30224 married women.

2009:

58192 married men committed suicide
31300 married women.

2010:

61453 married men committed suicide
31754 married women.

2011:

62433 married men committed suicide
32582 married women.

2012:
 
63343 married men committed suicide
31921 married women.

Above given numbers are especially in case of married men and women, Married men suicides are increasing year by year and no commission is there for analyzing that .


There is another article , Every 9 minutes a married man commits suicide in India , This shows us how the law is being misused to kill all that is masculine. These laws not only forcing men to commit suicide but also the women who are relatives of that man, like mother,sister,aunt who ever lives in that family. People get in to depression, whole reputation they earned through out years is gone, every one around them look at them as if they are criminals,  Finally when it gets proved that they were innocent, no one compensate them or punish the person who made up this false case on them. This means the suicide due to misuse of law are more than what we know here. No organization counts this, or no news or media challenges highlights these facts. There is more bad than good due to laws like 498a in a generation like this, where people became more greedy and money minded, and there is no provision to act on women and their relatives who misuses this law. That's a very disgusting part of this nation.

Following is the news from The Hindu dated June 26, 2013 03:58 IST

As many as 1,35,445 people committed suicide in the country last year. Statistics released by the National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB) show that excluding West Bengal, 79,773 men and 40,715 women had taken the extreme step. West Bengal, where 14,957 suicides were reported, did not provide classification statistics to the NCRB. 

The rate of suicide last year stands at 11.2 cases for a population of I lakh. As per rounded off figures provided by the NCRB, on an average, 15 suicides an hour or 371 suicides a day had taken place. When scrutinised further, it reveals 242 male and 129 female suicides a day.

Tamil Nadu tops the list with 16,927 suicides, followed by Maharashtra with 16,112 suicides, West Bengal 3rd and Andhra Pradesh following it with 14,328 suicides. The 28 States together accounted for 1,32,667 cases and the seven Union Territories together for 2,778 suicides. In the administrative division of Lakshadweep, only one person committed suicide. In Delhi UT, it was 1,899. Among the cities of the country, Chennai topped with 2,183 cases. 

The rate of suicide at the administrative division of Puducherry was the highest in the country, 36.8 for every 1 lakh persons. With a population close to 15 lakh as per estimated mid-year population, 541 persons committed suicide in Puducherry in 2012. Sikkim follows with a rate of 29.1 per cent and Tamil Nadu 3rd with a rate of 24.9 closely followed by Kerala with 24.3. The national average stands at 11.2. 

One suicide out of every six suicides was committed by a housewife. Andhra Pradesh, Karnataka, Kerala and Tamil Nadu plus Maharashtra have together accounted for 50.6% of the suicides reported in the country. The highest number of suicide pacts was reported from Rajasthan, 74, followed by Andhra Pradesh (18), Kerala (12), and Gujarat (3), out of 109 such cases reported.

Thirty-seven per cent of the victims took the extreme step by hanging themselves, 29.1 per cent by consuming poison and 8.4 per cent by self-immolation. Last year, 50,062 persons hanged themselves in the country and the majority were men at 34,631. The highest number of such cases was reported from Maharashtra, 7,055 followed by Kerala with 5,629 cases and Tamil Nadu 3rd with 5393 cases.

Nineteen thousand four hundred and forty five persons committed suicide by consuming poison and 12,286 of them were men. Tamil Nadu topped the list with 3,459 cases, followed by Karnataka with 3,173 cases. The number of self-immolation cases was 11,438, the majority being women — 7,326. In this category too, Tamil Nadu topped with 2,349 cases and 1,481 of them were women. Maharashtra followed with 1,674 such cases. 

From among the cities, the highest number of self immolation cases was reported from Kanpur (285), followed by Chennai (282). By jumping in front of speeding vehicles, especially trains, 4,259 persons committed suicide and the majority of them were men (3,554). Andhra Pradesh topped this list with 1,101 cases. 

As per NCRB statistics, 1,35,585 persons committed suicide in the country in 2011. NCRB statistics from 2002 shows that the annual suicide cases in the country always stood above the 1 lakh mark and the highest number of cases was in 2011. In 2002, it was 1,10,417 cases.

4 Reasons why women feminest dont deserve 50% share of husbands property and ancistrial property

These days there is lot of talk about this, in TV, News Papars, blogs etc etc...

But all these laws are made by some anti social eliments which are ruining our society by creating more and more discremination towards men, as respected Phyllis Schlafy said, "Feminist  movement is just not compatible with happiness, They want to kill everything masculine."

Her words are true, if you see the way laws being amended and created  and implemented, they are totally against men, a man who should deserve respect from his family for his sacrifice through out his life, is being discriminated and being abused everywhere today. They are treating men like as if they all are criminals and women are sathi savithri.

                       Last year I met one women who was my colleague, Initially looking at her I thought she is so innocent, but as time passed, I saw her true color, she was literally a kind of prostitute, who sleeps with any guy who gives her costly gifts, and she was also maintaining a boy friend who was working in a reputed MNC. That poor guy don't know that she is a culture less insect. This guy trusted her a lot that he kept spending lakhs of rupees on buying jewellery and dresses for her. On last Diwali he bought gold and diamond ornaments worth of 5 lakhs for her. But this women never even told him that she is not a kind of women who wanna lead family life. May god save him, I don't know where he is now.

    This is one of the examples of today's abala naari who are making our society shine like a star...don't know how to be proud of these women. It dose not mean that all women are similar, there are still good women, who obeys their husbands, shares love to their family, strives hard to protect and bring up their children as good human beings. I bow in respect to those women who, adjust with their husband and his family and support them in good and bad times. Those are the real women who supports her husband and his family till their last breath. Hats off to those mothers and sisters. I am proud of them.
 
real women were those who protected their culture and family through out ages, I respect those women and salute to them. Those were the real women who worked so hard to make their children a good citizen. Today's so called abala naari are destroying what our ancestor women built striving through out their life's, supporting their families. Even today there are still women who respects their husbands and their elders. May be its because of these few women our country is still called as Hindustan. May god bless these  mothers and sisters of our nation who still fallow our culture and traditions.

   Gone those days when wife's believed in "Pathi parameshwar"  word and made good citizens out of their children. Today crime rate increased drastically only because, today most of women don't know how to teach their children good manners, well these women themselves don't know manners, how can they teach any manners to their children? That's one of the major reason our country crime rate is increasing more and more.

Lets come in to topic.

 Why women don't deserve 50% share in husbands property, Ancestral property and almoney

1) Since the time the women get married to a man, Even if women do job and earns, only man spends money for house expenses and children, most of women don't spend their earned money, they save it. If in case there is a shortage of money and if you ask her to spare some money, she will give you money to spend, no doubt in that, but after that she keep saying that you spent her money. I faced this all the time. I spent lakhs of rupees till today, but once I asked my wife to take bus tickets because I got no money, she booked tickets for both of us. Then when ever she quarrels with me, she says that she spent money on me. What ? that 2500? you got to be kidding me....

          I asked "Then what about money I spent?" She simply says that it was my responsibility. Good one, only I got responsibility of family where as she don't........OK I understood that.


2) Women work's in home so she should get 50% share......hmm is it right?

well then if you take this in to monetary terms, I will clear your doubt here. Yes you work at home, but don't say that for me, you are cooking for yourself using  goods which I bought.....(correct me if I am wrong)  and you are sharing some food in my plate that's all. You are keeping house clean, well you got to keep it clean, no one want to stay in a home which is ugly and stinking. If you wanna stay in such house I don't have any issue with that. By the way I am paying rent 1000/- RS per month as rent, and you are living in home for free. So free shelter ,free food, and you got maid to wash cloths, here again I have to pay this maid.


3) Women are taking care of children.....

 Well that's a good point, But wait, you are asking for 50% share in husbands property and his ancestral property, in case of divorce right? then do you leave children with me? any way you are demanding for 50% share in my property my father property, his father property even after getting all befits like free accommodation, food, free laundry and I have to take you to movies, hotel for dinner on Saturdays.

      Still you keep children and I don't get anything? Are you the only parent of children, am I not the one who is blood relation of my child?


I got another point here

 4)  When a man get married to women, she don't have to bring dowry as its crime as per law. She don't bring any property  even thought there is law saying that  girl should get 50% of her ancestral property. But she demand 50 % share in husbands property, his ancestral property and almoney.


Good chance ha? overnight these women can become a millionaire. Just like that. These days, men are becoming more and more like ATM machines for their wife's, If wife's be loyal to husbands and really concern about family and support their husbands then its really not an issue for husband to care her and love her. But she is breaking a bond like as if she is resigning a job. They forget everything their husbands did for them and shows their greediness. What they know about mans struggle? Being a man is such a hard thing, sacrifice your enjoyment to serve your family, just be happy remembering your bachelor days. Sacrifice your hobbies, party's, those outings with friends. Forget everything and keep struggling to build future of you children and when a man looks back in to his life he just looks at his hard work, and even then there is no guarantee that his wife or his kids will take care of him. Most men ends up in old age homes even after doing so much for their children and wife. Still these feminist are trying to make men suffer more and more, and they are trying to drag men on to roads by garbing their ancestral property which is hard earned property of his parents for their son's future and their old age.


None of these feminist's look at these facts, they just know only one thing, for them only wife is a human. rest of all are worth of throwing on roads. We the young generation of this world , we the future of this mankind, we the future pillars of this beautiful world, need to act, need to raise our voice against these anti male laws. we need equality , not the laws which creates scratches in our relations. We need to protect our mothers, our fathers, we need to save our sisters and brothers from these anti social elements which are spoiling our society.

Lets raise our voice, lets join our hands, for a happy civilization, for equality, for our future generations, lets save our Hindu marriage system from this pollution. lets live happily again. Its up to us to protect our culture, our heritage. Hindu culture dose not says that a man or women is less than each other, Hindu dharma always says that both man and women are equal. Both Prakruthi purush  main pillars of this world and even if one of them will be destroyed, it will be end human race.






   

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No police have authority to arrest your family member under section 498a, until unless they have written consent letter from DCP (deputy commisionar of police). I know these days this law is being used as a tool to earn money, People have become so greedy that they are ready to ruin their daughters marital life in order to extract money from her husband and they can go to any extent to achieve that.

    It dose not mean that I dont support women, I love my mother, my sister, my friends who are women too, but whats the problem with 498a?

I will let you know regarding this. 498a is actually meant for innocent women being tortured for dowry, But what ever happening today in our country is, Women who actually need this law are still suffering where as women who are from well educated as well as women from upper middle class are using this as a tool to extract money from their husband, turning them in to a ATM machine. Every one want to pretect their daughter,mother,sister but whats the use if law which kills innocent people instead of punishing real culprits?

It became common these days that for any silly issue, women especially educated women are directly filing 498a on their husband and his family members, in most of cases its like revenge on family because they didn't satisfied her greedy needs or husbands family is living with him, or she don't want to live with husbands family including mother in-law, father in-law and she don't wanna work in home because she is educated or last but not least, marriage is not working out so she want divorce, as well as good money, so simple tool to use is 498a.

     This is what I call "LEGAL TERRORISM".

By god grace ,I am not yet a victim of this but still I am sensing some smell of danger in my own family . But one of my friend story is this, he is not ye a victim but look what he feels : "My wife  was very loving before marriage, even thought ours is an arranged marriage, there was 3 months gap between our engagement and wedding. Literally I spent thousands on her, taking her to movies, buying her dresses, costly hotels for dinner, lunch.  I was so happy to be frank. But problem began after 20 days of marriage. 10 days we were busy in  pujas, then I planned for honeymoon trip to Kerala. We spent good time. But when we came back, our mother came to our flat to meet us, she stayed with us for 3 days. In those three days she observed that my wife is not at all taking care of home, so my mother started guiding my wife in house work. How to cook, how to keep house clean etc etc, Obviously my mother is a hard worker, she used to cook for even 100 people without any help when there were any functions in our home, and today my father help's her, because she got nee pain.

      Third day when I came from office, there was no food cooked, my mother was ill, and my wife didn't even bothered about cooking. It was almost night 9 O clock, When my mother saw that, she felt  bad and she asked my wife that "Why didn't you cooked food, he came from office and there is no food for him yet." . My mother never kept me hungry, since my childhood, and she is so sencitive towards anyone. Even if my wife will be hungry she will feel bad for that. But that day we all got shocked when my wife started shouting. at my mother. That was the first time I saw her shouting. I really cant agree some one shouting at my parents. I said to stop shouting, but she kept shouting and after some time she went up to stairs and called her sister and told something. 

    Since that day till today, she gradually became more aggressive. Always abusing my mother, sister, finally recently she abused even my father, after all this I cant accept my wife abusing my parents, I never behaved like that. who the hell is she to abuse them? If she don't want to work then its ok I will cook my own food and I will wash my own cloths. What the heck? 

I started doing the same, kept cooking my own food, washing my own cloths. But even in that she got problem it seems, she called her sister and told everything, her sister called me and said that "I will make sure she will never do such thing again". I said "its OK, lets see if there will be any change".

Same day my father called me, he informed me that my wife brother called my father and shouting at him. "I will file case on you, why they are living seperate even after being in single house? I will file divorce for my sister, she will get 100's of matches even today". 

I thought, "who the hell are you to interfere in my family life"?  its my responsibility to make my wife learn how to be in a family. I am not asking dowry, I want my family to be decent. That not wrong in any way. What if we get kids and she still don't know cooking and taking care of her children's. I don't wanna take any risk, I want my children's to be healthy. this happened recently, and my wife told me that she is pregnant, I was happy, I brought fruits for her, and took her to doctor for any suggestions on diet and what is her health condition.

Next day I was busy with office so I said to my wife to go for checkup as hospital is just 100 feet away. I got tight scheduled at office. That day she went to hospital and when I came back from office at night 10 PM she started quarreling with me, and she said she will go to her home. I said its just beginning of pregnancy and its not good to travel , But she never listened to me. Next day morning again she started fighting with me and shouting on me. This time she abused me like anything. and she was saying that she will  file case on me because I am not sending her to her mother house. But I kept calm and called her sister, and I said the your sister is shouting at me, If she wish to come to home I cant do anything, I dont wanna send her now, as its risky to her, as well as fetus. Her sister said that she will take care of her and send her. 

               But what ever she shouted in anger, and the way she abused me, just broke my heart. I feel like why should I stay with her? 

But I decided to see what happens, If this relation will break, any way I am not gonna marry again, I cant bare this nonsense again with someone else. Ek shaadi bohoth hai. 


There is very long story by I cant write everything here. well vaise bhi sab ko patha hai aisi life me kya hotha hai....."

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