Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Some openly feminist advice to men on how to deal with women

Yesterday some free advise has been given by some feminist to men, on how to deal with women.

Following  is the article I got from

IBNLive.com | 26-Nov-2013 12:25 PM

. We can see this feminist's are not really happy with equality, they want to destroy total culture and replace it with a messy and confused culture. Like they will ware any thing they want, and man should not look at her. They do any stupidity on road and her husband should not stop her. They can roam and lay down with anyone, not restricted to  any particular number, as per feminist they can have as many men as they wish, and husband or father or brother or boyfriend cant ask a single question.

Last but not least "Women can break their relationship with you and go with anyone they wish at any moment, and man don't have right to stop her and at least ask her." , an there is also a free suggestion here, they say that a man should say sorry even if he hasn't done any thing, and women may think of forgiving him.

You know what, I never say sorry until unless I have did anything wrong. I as a husband , Father,Brother  I have responsibility to protect her before marriage, after marriage, In school, In college. I have right tell her what not to do and what to do, when she is moving in wrong direction. Most no of suicides in women are majorly due to their wrong decisions and realization after their wrong actions. In case they feel shame for it they go for suicide. There are very few such cases where men are the reason for women suicide. But these feminist's link every death women to man and keep forcing government to make anti man laws.First they stop men from guiding their women. Then when something wrong happens and women realizes that she did wrong and she go for suicide, then again these same feminist's blame man for that and make him guilty for nothing.

Every man and women who think this feminism is  anti male, and is trying to kill everything masculine. raise your voice, this feminist world, be part in saving our Indian culture, Our heritage, we cant loose our Hindu dharma and culture for some anti social elements and culture less minds , who are trying to spoil our culture.

IBNLive.com | 26-Nov-2013 12:25 PM

       Over the past few days, several versions of what happened at Tehelka's intellectual ThinkFest in Goa have come out in public. The initial letters written by the magazine's founding editor Tarun Tejpal to his alleged victim of sexual assault were contrite in their tone and text. But as the story played out in the media over a week, Tejpal was seen changing his defense and now claims that it was nothing more than 'drunken banter' between two consensual adults.
Tejpal has said, "I'm shocked to learn that a false complaint was sought to be projected as an incident of alleged harassment. The encounter was only light hearted banter which led to a moment of privacy between two individuals. Our meeting lasted a few seconds and no intimate moment was shared between us."
Tejpal has said that "the woman continued to party" even after the incident, implying that she could not have been traumatized enough.
Here are some openly feminist pointers to men who deal with women daily at home, workplaces and socially:
1. A woman can decide to take time to internalize and process an incident. The outward expression isn't proof of internal trauma
2. A woman can choose to file a complaint at any time she deems fit - even a month after the incident if she so chooses, it doesn't mean she is looking to make hay
3. Even if it started as a consensual affair, a woman can say 'no' at any time. 'No' means 'no'. The sooner men understand that the better it is for all parties concerned
4. A woman can have multiple sexual partners. What she chooses to do in her own time isn't your concern. It doesn't reflect on her abilities as a professional. You cannot take the moral high ground as defence against a charge of sexual assault
5. A woman's clothes aren't testimony to her character
6. Even in a feminist world, you have to be courteous to women. The tired cliche that 'if you think you are equal to us, you bloody well fight for that last seat on the tube' doesn't work for me. Women value generosity in a man
7. Often you are physically, mentally and emotionally the only crutch a woman has - as her brother, husband, lover, friend, father and colleague - to bear her cross. Don't exploit that as leverage for bargaining for her freedom and choices she makes
8. You wouldn't like to be told how to live your life. Don't tell her how to live hers
9. Her freedom - to wear what she wants, to go where she wants, to choose her friends - isn't yours to bestow. Don't play her God in your micro-cosmos



10. Nothing works better than a well worded apology when you are wrong. You don't know what a woman is willing to forgive if you only said sorry.

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