Friday, November 29, 2013

Male’s are not safe in public place




I’m taking this opportunity to explain “How Feminism is troubling normal peson in public?”
Last weekend I was travelling from Hyderabad to Bangalore due to some work, I was in hurry to get ticket on same day I need to travel. Damn sure our IRCTC will not give any help so started browsing multiple travel sites to get at least single seat if it’s near to driver that was also fine for me.
It was my luck I got seat reserved in one of the Travels (Don’t want to disclose the Travels name but for sure I will never ever take their services in future). There was incident which made me panic & at some extent it made me to lose my patience as well.

Bus was AC sleeper & old model which will have 2 seats joined together & single seat at other side separated by walking passage.

Out of double seat one seat was occupied by male (Raja) age around 30-35, he boarded at the same pickup point where I. After 2 pickup points crossed, almost last pick up point Queen Elizabeth (Rani) age around 25-30, was arrived in her private plane (Travels bus ) & unfortunately she was sharing the Double seat out of that one was occupied by Raja.

Raja was innocent, well behaved & well mannered guy that’s what I can say, as when he was talking to Rani he was calling her “Mam”. But vice-versa Rani was brainless, ill mentality & worst Female specie that’s what I can say. After entering Rani saw that Double seat is shared by Raja & she got shocked. Rani started shouting loudly people around were sleeping, hearing noise, they woke up & looking towards them. Rani’s was was shouting saying “she cant share double seat with Raja as he is Male”. Ok understood valid point as well but she started creating noise & shouting like Raja has done some great mistake(like wife files false 498a). Seeing Rani shouting attender came to see what going on? Then he understood the problem & he called his supervisor till then I was silent & watching everything as I was not having single clue to defend Raja. When attender was talking over phone with supervisor Rani shouted on him “why can’t you put on speaker so that everyone can hear?”  Attender shakes his head & put the phone on speaker. Problem raised because people who are having single seat none of them was ready to spare their it for this lady & sharing the Double seat with Raja.

Actually when online reservations done for travels it never shows that Double seats is shared by which Gender consider if  A&B are attached Double seat, A is booked by Male & B is booked by Female then reservation should not happen if it’s done by 2 different person. I gave that as my strong feedback for travels.

Lets come back to real story, Supervisor informed to attender (like HC gives judgment in favor of 498a girl though husband didn’t do anything wrong) check if Raja booked his ticket after Rani then tell him to get down & wait on same pick-up point AC Volvo seating bus is coming. Somewhat judgment accepted by both (like McD) & Rani got temporary relief (like interim maintenance awarded without evidences). But many questions were popped in my mind.

1)      Why Raja should vacate the seat for Rani?
2)      Why Rani treated as some gr8 personality? Though no one is wrong here.
3)      Why Raja should travel in semi sleeper bus though he paid for Sleeper coach?
4)      Why Rani should get benefit of doubt?

Attender checked the list & result was more confusing actually Raja reserved the seat 2 days before Rani reserved. Again panic situation but being at very primary level MRA I took this opportunity to shout on Rani(Abala Nari). After some lecture she stopped shouting & calm down then she started requesting attender (Can you please make someone to share this double seat? ) said sorry for whatever she has done.
Seeing I gave helping hand to Raja, Raja got some confidence then myself & Raja started scolding the supervisor on phone. We both were fighting like MRA’s to get Raja’s respect back we were tracing on same point as she has reserved seat followed by Raja she should get down & come by semi sleeper bus. Finally Supervisor said sorry & he talk to Raja without speaker “Sir, I’m really very sorry but problem is if we don’t consider the Female though she is wrong many problem’s will pop up as she is women so to avoid it I said so”. Like some helpless judge though he knows husband is innocent he has to ask for Evidences as Law give full support to Abala Nari irrespective of she is having criminal mind.
Is this not true?

-          Supervisor is like helpless bounded judge.
-          Rani who cry saying Abala Nari but at the end everyone come to know she is nothing but having criminal mind.

-          Raja innocent Husband or harassed male who need to prove that he innocent.
Guys think on this topic feminism becoming like Gunda-gardi. How safe Indian Male’s are?

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